She was wearing #87.....f*** that dude in the red shirt for clocking the Coyotes girl fan
If you become a asshole when you drink, DON'T DRINK, maybe try gummies and then you will at least be happy for a while.
I think pretty much nobody got my self-effacing lower bowl/upper bowl joke.Pricey? That's Arizona.
Someone getting their finger bit off is clearly false, as that would have been posted numerous times in this thread, the article pertaining to that.
That's your take away from this? how could you possibly see she took a swing at the dude? Getting between two guys isn't taking a a swing at someone.
It looks like she first gets involved trying to pull away the person she knows.
On time, in my late 20, I was hammered at the bar when a fight between two large dude erupted.
heroically I stood up and stand between the two.
Exactly 2 second later, I was punch in the eye, concussed to the ground.
Was it the right thing to do? Maybe....
Is it my own fault I got beat up? totally.
Most of this makes sense - except for "invitation to be punched in the face." It is nothing of the sort - and the puncher (who was also the aggressor) is 100% in the wrong in that situation. Not being in control isn't an excuse.This is the reality of getting involved in someone else's fight. People are either prepared for this outcome or they are not.
I think back to the end of the movie "Stand By Me" when one of the main characters overcomes all his troubles, becomes a lawyer against the odds, and dies when some random stranger stabs him because he got between two guys in a fight. Nobody asked him to be the peacemaker, but he made a choice and paid for it.
In this case, #87 with all best intentions decided to pull her (friend?) away from a fight, then moved around him and started putting her hands on the guy she didn't know. That is, in 100% of real life situations, an invitation to be punched in the face. The idea that someone is going to stop in the middle of a fistfight to think about whether it's socially appropriate to hit the person who just jumped up and started grabbing at them, is not real life.
The lesson is to leave people the **** alone when they're fighting, and if you decide to get involved, assume you are now going to be attacked as a combatant. There is no "red jersey" option.
Most of this makes sense - except for "invitation to be punched in the face." It is nothing of the sort - and the puncher (who was also the aggressor) is 100% in the wrong in that situation. Not being in control isn't an excuse.
For what it's worth, #87 did the "right" thing, as Pastrnak was getting worked by red shirt, and Coyotes Jersey on the left was giving rat shots from the side at the same time. It was a pretty cowardly display by those two, and Pasta was in some serious trouble. Seems like she knew the risk and took a huge shot for it, but it still doesn't mean that red shirt is in any way absolved.
I know what you're saying but in this case it looked like the woman was with one of the guys involved.On time, in my late 20, I was hammered at the bar when a fight between two large dude erupted.
heroically I stood up and stand between the two.
Exactly 2 second later, I was punch in the eye, concussed to the ground.
Was it the right thing to do? Maybe....
Is it my own fault I got beat up? totally.
Most of this makes sense - except for "invitation to be punched in the face." It is nothing of the sort - and the puncher (who was also the aggressor) is 100% in the wrong in that situation. Not being in control isn't an excuse.
For what it's worth, #87 did the "right" thing, as Pastrnak was getting worked by red shirt, and Coyotes Jersey on the left was giving rat shots from the side at the same time. It was a pretty cowardly display by those two, and Pasta was in some serious trouble. Seems like she knew the risk and took a huge shot for it, but it still doesn't mean that red shirt is in any way absolved.
"Invitation to be punched in the face" does not mean "the person who punched is absolved"
She was wearing #87.....
Unfortunately, a lot of the narrative surrounding such incidents tends to do just that."Invitation to be punched in the face" does not mean "the person who punched is absolved"
Knowing what's likely to happen and inviting it to happen are two completely different things. The latter puts an unnecessary level of blame on the victim.This:
Hopefully the guy who punched her was the one who went to jail. He made his choices.
That said, she absolutely did invite the punch when she decided to grab at him. He's a grown man running on adrenaline and alcohol, throwing haymakers and receiving haymakers in return. What did she think was going to happen when she stepped into the middle of that? It's just real life that you don't jump into that situation with anything other than an assumption that you're gonna get punched.
Unfortunately, a lot of the narrative surrounding such incidents tends to do just that.
Knowing what's likely to happen and inviting it to happen are two completely different things. The latter puts an unnecessary level of blame on the victim.
Knowing what's likely to happen and inviting it to happen are two completely different things. The latter puts an unnecessary level of blame on the victim.