And you completely misread what I said. I was talking about his family, not Panarin, and I said it was unlikely anything would happen to them, but it also wouldn't be shocking if something did. And if you are Russian, that's enough doubt scare you about the wellbeing of your family.
And good for you that you go on a business trip to Russia. I guess, you the American, know more about my home country than me. Let me fill you in on something, your experience as a tourist is far different than what people who live in the country deal with on a consistent basis.
Just to give you an idea, I lived in China for 5 years, and would say the same thing as you, people's perceptions of the country are blown way out of proportion. From my point of view it is one of the safest places and as an expat I actually felt an incredible amount of freedom there to do whatever I wanted. Nevertheless, every now and then you would hear odd stories about local and government interactions that is hard to believe to be true given my own interactions in the country. Being a foreigner in these authoritarian countries you live in a bubble.