So I think we can all agree we get to recognize the regular poster's names over and over. I am a total wiseass joker. However, I've also always been an awkward loner, so let me clue you guys in on a few things:
Awkward because I'd much rather walk in the woods and catalogue native vs. invasive species of plants than hang out at a bar. I loved playing this sport more than anything when I was younger. I loved being part of a team. However I didn't love the whole "bro" culture, and often times had very little in common with my teammates. It doesn't mean we didn't get along and have some serious laughs. It doesn't mean I didn't battle my ass off for them. They knew I was a weirdo, but they also knew I was right there with them. So I really don't see this as an issue. I was one of the boys....just the weird one. lol
Loner because while I am EXTREMELY friendly and will literally talk to anyone, I am also EXTREMELY selective as to who I REALLY give my time and energy to. I truly value my alone time. I quite literally need it in order to function. I am more than comfortable doing my own thing. There is no shell I or anyone like him or me need to emerge from.
The reality is that we don't know what's REALLY going on behind those doors. Also, as much as I get the kind of base personality he might have, none of us actually know him. I've known plenty of people like me who are total sweethearts, and others who are total dicks.