Paddyjack
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Happy to see someone else noticed that too.He seemed more bothered by the fact that he has to stay in jail until next Thursday than the fact he had murdered two people. It's sickening.
Happy to see someone else noticed that too.He seemed more bothered by the fact that he has to stay in jail until next Thursday than the fact he had murdered two people. It's sickening.
His veteran status is 100% irrelevant. Humanizing him should have nothing to do with it. This is exactly the attitude that lets cops, politicians, and veterans think they are privy to another tier of justice. His time served isn't relevant at all.why bring this up? Because by somehow humanizing this piece of shit we see a guy who served his country, made a reckless decision and also happened to destroy the lives of his two young daughters too.
His actions can't undo the harm that has been done or heal the pain of loss but as one can read from this thread, it raises questions about our own feelings about justice and death and how f***ing fragile it all is
Honestly, you were allowed to get away with a lot more in the past as far as the laws went. I think peak stupidity was when everyone had a flip phone and it was a skill to be able to text and drive. I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if we started seeing breathalyzers being mandatory in everyone’s vehicles in the future.This is exactly the reason I stopped biking touring, and got more into bike path riding and bike packing. Modern drivers are way too distracted and way too privileged, and impaired driving is way too common. I have been in situations with cars that have come way too close to death, and this is often in the full light of day. The Gudreau brothers riding on a country highway after sunset is something that I would avoid doing at all costs because that is even more dangerous.
It is super sad that cyclists are so at the whimsey of people behind the wheel.
I hope that this Higgins guy and all other irresponsible drivers have their judgment day, but in the end, what can you do. This tragedy that has befallen this family on what was meant to be a joyous occasion can never be erased.
None of us know what he's thinking, but this is a pretty stupid thing to assume. Unless he's a total monster, he cares that he ended the life of two young men, and destroyed a few families. He made a horrible mistake, did something stupid, wreckless, etc.
But assuming that he doesn't care about his consequences other than that it inconvenienced his Labour Day weekend is ridiculous.
Absolutly , and we are in the era of Uber and similar . So the options are easily available not risk anyone’s lifeConsidering the devastating effects drunk driving can have on people and how well known the consequences are, there should be stricter punishments for it. There is simply no excuse to drive drunk these days.
FWIW - drunk driver stuck around at the scene of the horrific crash waiting for police to arrive vs bolting & was upfront about downing 6 beers prior to getting in the car & continuing to drink while driving.I don't think it's ridiculous at all. He made several decisions that, in my opinion, are sufficient to believe that this guy is just the worst. The drinking and driving is one thing, but I had to reread the description of what happened several times to understand it because the driving was so completely insane. I don't know that I have seen anything like it in person, and I've seen some shit. But even then he has a *record* of doing this shit. I think there's precisely zero evidence of contrition or reflection and quite a bit to the contrary.
It's not a mistake when you drink alcohol and decide to drive, that's a choice.The driver... man. What a horrible mistake. That's going to be really hard to live with.
I'm not defending his actions, but to assume that the only thing he cares about is that he won't be home for a long weekend is dumb. We saw a short video of him processing the consequences of his actions. A video that never should've been made public anyway, IMO. He deserves whatever prison time he'll be getting, and possibly more.I don't think it's ridiculous at all. He made several decisions that, in my opinion, are sufficient to believe that this guy is just the worst. The drinking and driving is one thing, but I had to reread the description of what happened several times to understand it because the driving was so completely insane. I don't know that I have seen anything like it in person, and I've seen some shit. But even then he has a *record* of doing this shit. I think there's precisely zero evidence of contrition or reflection and quite a bit to the contrary.
Many of the choices you make are mistakes.It's not a mistake when you drink alcohol and decide to drive, that's a choice.
Learning from your mistakes is a sign of maturity and growth. Good for you!In 1982 I was 21 and drove while very intoxicated. I lost control of my 1973 Camaro and slammed into a telephone pole. The reason I am alive is because I slid into it sideways instead of head on. The courts hammered me (I deserved it). After a few months of soul searching I decided that I didn't want to kill an innocent family due to my stupidity. I haven't had a drop since 1982. Sober 42 years and the biggest reason for this was I knew if I hurt an innocent family I would never be able to live with that. I thank God that I learned a lesson that resonated.
I didn't write nor do I believe he's privy to any different tier of justice, regardless of society's corruption.His veteran status is 100% irrelevant. Humanizing him should have nothing to do with it. This is exactly the attitude that lets cops, politicians, and veterans think they are privy to another tier of justice. His time served isn't relevant at all.
The difference is that he has the privilege to live with and reflect on the pain and damage his irresponsible conduct has caused.The driver... man. What a horrible mistake. That's going to be really hard to live with.
Again, I understand that you're trying to remind people that the perpetrator is still a human being. I appreciate that. But it's absolutely bizarre to mention his veteran status. Glad you're not being an apologistI didn't write nor do I believe he's privy to any different tier of justice, regardless of society's corruption.
You missed the nuance of my point which happens on an anonymous chat board.
Anyway, I'm done with our discussion.
Maybe pay attention to what others have written in here about regret and mistakes.
And no, it's not an apologist's perspective.
I could not agree with you more. How he isn't facing life in prison shows how out of touch the laws are. If you get into an accident and someone is killed and you are sober....that's a different animal. If you make a decision to drink excessively and get behind the wheel...that is something that needs to be dealt with similarly to any 2nd degree murder charge.Personally I'd use the term murdered instead of killed. If you drink and get behind the wheel and this happens, you're a f***ing murderer.
We have way too many years of education and knowledge, going through many sessions in school and otherwise to know the dangers of impaired driving.
f*** this guy and I hope he has the worst prison experience one could possibly have. As I do for any other drunk driver. The laws against drunk driving are way too lenient and need to be far more discouraging than they are today.
I thought he’s being charged with 2nd degree vehicular homicide?I could not agree with you more. How he isn't facing life in prison shows how out of touch the laws are. If you get into an accident and someone is killed and you are sober....that's a different animal. If you make a decision to drink excessively and get behind the wheel...that is something that needs to be dealt with similarly to any 2nd degree murder charge.
Sickened that shit like this is still happening at this level in 2024.
I believe there is a difference between 2nd degree murder and 2nd degree vehicular homicide...I think the max he can get is 10 years for each count whereas he could get life for 2nd degree murder. Each state laws are different. I am standing by to be corrected.I thought he’s being charged with 2nd degree vehicular homicide?
Any accident where you are at fault (speeding, drunk, not obeying traffic laws) should be first degree murder.I could not agree with you more. How he isn't facing life in prison shows how out of touch the laws are. If you get into an accident and someone is killed and you are sober....that's a different animal. If you make a decision to drink excessively and get behind the wheel...that is something that needs to be dealt with similarly to any 2nd degree murder charge.
Sickened that shit like this is still happening at this level in 2024.