I had to look it up on hockey reference and that game was on December 7th of 2002, which checks out, as we were done by Christmas, but awkwardly exchanged gifts (that were probably purchased already before the breakup) and spent Christmas Eve/Christmas day with each other and our families.
Shots were 38-14 Devils and the goal was scored at 12:43 of the 1st period at even strength.
I have no absolutely no recollection of what the goal looked like.
It feels like any non-Brodeur game from those years and for about 15 years between 95 and 10 should stick out, as there weren't many games he didn't play between those years, with the exception of about 3 or 4 months in the 08-09 season when he was hurt.