There will always be people that do whatever they like regardless. I do believe that number will rise if we try to be too stringent. I think the average person gets it....
I don’t think telling people that mass gatherings in cities is okay but you can’t sit with your wife at an outdoor table 10 feet from anyone wearing a mask in/out/to the bathroom is going to fly with average people.
Just to reiterate, I certainly don’t fault or criticize anyone using max caution, but that’s not for everyone.
The key here is just using some common sense and being smart.
With no real, cohesive, nationwide standards or guidelines, and with decision-making left to the states, I don't think things are stringent at all. We have a whole range of mandates, orders, guidelines, and enforcement across the states. Unfortunately, it is being made a political stake in the ground, with some states openly flouting the advice being given and in the face of worsening numbers.
I don't know where you got the "you can't sit with your wife 10 feet away" thing. Link? Socially distanced outdoor dining's been allowed, afaik.
We've not been stringent, in my view, and the numbers are rising anyway.
Then today I read a story about parties going on where the first person at the party who gets a confirmed infection gets a payout.
Those who are shown on video fighting people over masks, injuring security guards, berating service workers, do they not see that ultimately the stores and places they want to go to will close anyway, when we're back to early April conditions? Because of some ideology that their freedoms are being oppressed by tyrannical forces? Where's the common sense in that?
They end up ruining it for everyone, when everything is shut down again.