Ail
Based and Rangerspilled.
If these new fangled fancy stats were around 10 years ago when I first joined these boards when my life consisted of school and the gym, I would likely be a fancy stats nerd.
The bold is exactly what you want though. Many people forget their audience.
The best way I can describe it is: Rangers lose in OT, Game 7 of the SCF due to one of the worst calls ever seen. Mr. Machine H. goes on a rampage all over HF and gets banned. Gardner M. expresses his/her frustration in a socially acceptable manner. (Sorry J. You were the first person that came to mind)
Emotional intelligence is the ability to trigger the appropriate response based on the setting and not necessarily what your emotions tell you. More companies are interviewing with a lot of questions based on how you handle conflict.
At my company it is an entirely different interview from the job interview. They tell you straight away you'll have the normal "why are you the guy for the job" interview and also a second one right after which is basically just a psychological evaluation.
Example question: "Have you ever had conflicts before in the workplace? Can you give an example and how you resolved it?"
Incorrect answer: "Yeah this guy kept taking my documents from the copy machine and throwing them out because he printed something after me and I hadn't gone over to pick them up yet, so I went to his desk and poured coffee all over everything."
Incorrect answer: "No."
Correct Answer: Just make up some elaborate story about how there was a struggle between you and another employee, or work-group and although it was sometimes frustrating you worked together as a team to resolve the issue because it is important to stay focused and make sure the job gets done rather than be involved in petty arguments or distractions from work.