Wow, that's terrible. Is there any chance you can work with your employer to expedite your benefits?
I’ve initiated that conversation, and of course we’ve talked about getting married by a judge quickly and just not announcing it. Even if those both come to pass, it’s gonna be a shit show balancing medical bills, rent, etc. when I haven’t started earning yet and we blew virtually everything moving and getting settled. I’m sure we’ll figure it out, but I’m really tempted to do some muscle for hire work