I’m not disagreeing with you here. In general I don’t even believe in a player developing much better in Finland or in North America. A good player will develop eventually well in either, and I don’t definitely believe that training in either is at least clearly better than the other. Maybe for some certain individual the other is a bit better than the other, but the difference can’t still be enormous. The more important thing is that they get trust from their coaches and get to play a lot. Heinola’s situation isn’t really optimal for any player’s development.
The coach issue is why I could see
@Jussi ’s suggestion of Lambert going to play in Jukurit under Olli Jokinen’s coaching, as a really good option in his situation. Young promising players whose development had seriously stalled, really flourished under Jokinen last season. He seems to understand really well what kind of trust and motivating the young and promising players need.
The problematic thing about staying in Finland is exactly what you were emphasizing - he would be still too much under control of his meddling father. Although if Jokinen’s coaching would work with Brad, maybe Brad’s father would be also calmer.