Walkingthroughforest
I got the worst ******* attorneys
- Aug 19, 2007
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Do you see what you're doing? You're talking out of both sides of your mouth.I don't think the things he was accused of were good. They sounded horrendous. I do find there are those that don't even attempt to look at the other side of it. She stayed with him for 14 years after the balcony incident. Why? That's perplexing to me. And you know what? It is not any of my business either. Because I sure as heck don't know the whole story and this wasn't tested in court. I'm that annoying "innocent until proven guilty" guy that used to be common back in the day. So here is the thing, Hull's life outside of hockey in his private life seemed very complicating. His hockey career? Not so. Actually I'd rather fill 20 pages about that. I mean it is a dead horse beaten over and over here. There doesn't seem to be any balance here. Almost 20 pages and barely mentioning his playing career? Wake me up when we actually talk about Hull the player. I think we've heard enough about Hull the husband by now. These aren't new stories that just popped up by any means. We've heard them before.
On one hand you'e saying "I'm not dismissing abuse" and then you go right back and say "I actually can dismiss it because of x, y and z.
I think you need to educate yourself a lot about abusive relationships because what you're saying is frankly awful. People don't leave abusive men for many, many reasons, and none of them have to be because they want to stay. There's power, there's money, there's children, housing, etc. Women will literally stay with abusive men for years until they kill them.
We don't need a court of law to believe Joanne and the kids, especially as they all tell the same story and she has nothing to gain from it. You can also look at the fact that at the time of his death, as far as we know he was still alienated from the majority of his family.
People would be happy to talk about Hull the hockey player, but then people such as you say these truly awful things that would be really damaging for people who experienced abuse to read or interact with.
I promise you that if you had just accepted the statement that Hull's abusive history is just as valid as his hockey history that we could have gotten talking about hockey a lot sooner.
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