OK, Barney style...
1. Have clear expectations for the role of each player at the NHL level in the long run. A realistic projection of what you want them to develop into.
2. If the player does not fit those expectations, sent him back to the AHL to work on his weaknesses. There he can get more ice time in the appropriate role than he can in the NHL even if he is good enough to play in the NHL but below his expectation. This includes PP and PK time which he can get a the AHL level but maybe not the NHL level.
3. Have a consistent style of play throughout the organization so they learn how to play the team's style in the minors. (I leave it to those who watch the Cuda to say if the Sharks organization does this; the Wings do.)
4. When the player shows they are ready for their NHL role, they get promoted and stick. Often this involves promotions where if the player cannot meet their expectation, they go back down.
5. Most important, have patience to let players develop into their roles even if it hurts the NHL team in the short run.
Here are two examples that occur to me:
1. The Sharks should send Weatherby down to work on his game now. His long-run role is a fourth-liner, but he needs to get more physical to play that role. With the Cuda, he would get more ice time to work on physical play and how to use it to create some offense.
2. LaBanc played about 20 games in the AHL, but he could have used more time to force him to develop his defensive awareness and eliminate the lazy penalties. But his offense was good enough to play at the NHL level, and the team lacked depth, so he stayed up.
Considering the trajectory of local papers and Sharks/Mercury beat writers that aspect of your favored development approach is not long for this world
I guess if I had to choose an org to answer my own question with, the Wings likely would have been it - with their reputation for leaving their prospects in the A for longer than most.
So if I’m reading your comment correctly, It’s really important that the Sharks get local media to print their internal expectations of players and then they need to start having top prospects staying in the AHL for multiple years and send them back and forth between the NHL and A. That’s development. I mean, I just follow the Sharks, so you might have to break it down Barney style for me.