On the first part, I'm not suggesting that they're connected, just that over a longer time frame than just a game or two the law of averages will catch up with you and you will do what the Wild did - win one and lose one - essentially neutering the purpose of the strategy when the outcome of two events is worse on an expected basis than if you had left the goalie in.
I understand what you're saying about the utility theory (at least I think I do) but that doesn't change the fact that the underlying mathematics don't lie. If you can't sustain a success rate well in excess of 50% (probably more like 75%) this strategy is a losing one over time because you can never get more than the two points. It would change my opinion (not to mention be an awesome topic for discussion) if pulling the goalie would allow you to capture all three points when you win since you get none when you lose.
As I have explained in other posts, it seems like (to use
@Brian39 's term) a Hail Mary that you should only pull out when not getting both points will officially and mathematically eliminate you. Otherwise, if you pull it out too soon and have to repeat the trick, you're almost certainly going to squander valuable points along the way. Like they did.