My (possibly) final stance on the Wilson/NYR thing. Hell, who am I kidding. More BS will happen again.
If you have a department focused on the safety of players, and you dole out suspensions for dirty play, you cannot expect teams to police each other.
If you want to remove the instigator penalty, allow teams to police each other, and have the DOPS focus on a narrow scope (illegal checks, headhunting like Bertuzzi/Moore, etc) I am completely fine with it.
But the league created Tom Wilson and effectively neutered other teams who have veered away from dangerous players, because the league set the expectation they would handle it.
They have not.
So whether you want more fighting/team policing OR you want DOPS to be more strict on ALL dirty play, the point is this middling around and inconsistency is not cutting it.