I'm sorry I struck a nerve. I obviously don't know you well enough to call you a bigot.
But you have expressed viewpoints on topics that are red flags and, unfortunately, are either contributory or emblematic of viewpoints that hurt others (even if not expressed by you). And for some reason, despite attempts to contextualize these sociopolitical issues, there are flippant responses to dismiss the concern these topics.
You contribute more financially to those in need than I do or can. I'm thankful you do that. But generous people can be unaware of their biases or how their attitudes can be harmful to others.