Oddly enough, the numbers since the start of 2022 suggest the Jays are probably the best in baseball at going home. They've been thrown out at the plate 7 times in that span, with the league average at 16 and the Mariners (6) as the only other team under 10.
You could say that part of that is because they've haven't been a particularly fast team, so they hold at third a lot, but:
Scoring from 2B on a single:
2022 League average - 60%
2022 Jays - 66.8%
2023 Jays - 80%
Scoring from 1B on a double:
2022 League average - 41.2%
2022 Jays - 43.6%
2023 Jays - 45.4%
I don't know. I know every example of a bad send/hold stands out more than a good one (especially when the bad one is as bad a last night's), but if you have a relatively slow team that rarely ever gets thrown out at the plate but still scores at a well above average rate, that should reflect well on the 3B coach, shouldn't it?
Fans (in all sports) have tunnel vision on their team and don't have perspective on the league as a whole. And when a bad thing happens a couple times thinks it only happens to them.
Same way every NHL fanbase thinks a disproportionate percentage of opposing milestone goals is scored against them, and every NHL fanbase has a laundry list of 'stars taken just after our bad pick' to show how their historical drafting is bad.