Speaking for my own emotions using my own words, I experience narrowly tailored contempt but restricted exclusively to people who attack me personally, which is constant here.
When I was a 5 year old kindergartener in 6th grade class I wasn't condescending to anyone ... but I certainly was targeted. At first I tried the strategy taught to me when I was young: Jesus – turn the other check, MLK – nonviolence, Gandhi – be the change you want to see in the world, mother – be the better man. But I learned very well how useful those strategies are. They are tickets to greater abuse. They are for suckers. Peers see that and they smell even more blood. I was a really kind, nice, thoughtful kid and I loved the Blues. My existence threatened people. By the time I was taking college math while in 6th grade at Brittany in UCity I learned that turning the other cheek like Jesus to show them how unjust they were being didn't work, that simply encouraged additional physical abuse. It was so bad we moved to a new school district. At Wydown and Clayton High the abuse was constant and verbal. Once I found out about "class rank" as a concept I decided to be the valedictorian in a way that lapped the field and embarrassed them by taking an absurdly difficult schedule while doing it.
There are many counterproductive ways to respond to childhood abuse. I became a dynamic person with wide and passionate interests determined to have a well traveled life filled a duty to my fellow human to contribute my best. But the way this community is, it's impossible for there not to be so many other damaged people acting out their own abuse scenarios and thus it's impossible for someone not to attack a person who expresses a strong opinion. It's just not in this community to be better, nor is it in humanity.