U.S. basketball and football players develop in college, where they have been given sports scholarships. Equipment and travel expenses for their parents are minimal.
Hockey is unique in that regard. Since I am out of the loop, I'm asking if there is the equivalent of "scholarships" routinely given out at the Junior level, where future NHL players are developed.
The big thing for football is even high-schools have sizable booster programs, and they re-use equipment. You don't see that in hockey. Most schools have fields they can use free of charge, they don't have ice-rinks, so the cost of ice is expensive (In the GTA I know of 4 schools which have dedicated indoor rinks, all of them are private two of which cost around 25k a year). But, I think looking at colleges is misguided. NBA prospects are mainly developed at Prepschools and AAU tournaments now. Most top college football prospects go to flagship high-school programs which in some regions of the United States of large booster programs (look at Southlake Carrol, Lake Travis, Westlake Austin, etc).
Some kids will have AAA programs cover some of the costs if they are elite and they have to be recognized at a young age. So, a ton of kids are going to fall through the cracks, and not be able to make it up later.
The big thing is, most kids who end up top players start playing at 6 or so. The cost of yearly equipment changes for growing kids, ice-time, in many cases private coaching/summer camp/summer travel on top of the yearly AAA costs are astronomical.
Another thing about Wayne, as development becomes more focused on playing for certain AAA programs, he probably would have ended up moving to somewhere in the GTA, or Kitchener or London. Entry level hockey at the houseleague level is pricy, when you start looking at AAA you are talking college tuition fees or higher on a yearly basis.