MetalheadPenguinsFan
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I had one of those as a kid!!

Dawn Michelle Staley (born May 4, 1970) is an American basketball coach and former player who is the head coach for the South Carolina Gamecocks women's basketball team. A point guard, she played college basketball for the Virginia Cavaliers and spent eight seasons in the Women's National Basketball Association (WNBA), primarily with the Charlotte Sting. Staley also played on the United States women's national basketball team, winning three gold medals at the Olympic Games from 1996 to 2004, and was the head coach of the team that won an Olympic gold medal in 2021. She is the only person to win the Naismith Award as both a player and a coach and is frequently considered to be one of the greatest coaches in the history of NCAA women's basketball.
I (40M, 5'4", Korean) have a pretty big collection of plushies — think Pokémon, Sanrio, random cute animals, the works. I’ve been collecting them for years, and I’m pretty proud of them. They’re all displayed in the living room on shelves and the couch like little royalty.
Here’s the thing: I don’t let anyone touch them. Not friends, not family, not even my boyfriend of six months. I even bought a little sign that says “LOOK, DON’T TOUCH.” I thought it was funny. Apparently, no one else does.
Last week, I hosted a small get-together. I told everyone the "no plushie touching" rule beforehand, but my boyfriend’s niece (7F) lightly hugged a big Snorlax plushie because she thought it looked "soft and sleepy." I immediately told her, sternly, “Please don’t touch the plushies.” She got embarrassed and almost cried.
My boyfriend pulled me aside later and said I was being “insane” and that they’re literally toys and I should chill out, especially around kids. I told her it’s about respect — my house, my rules. He said he understood but that it made me look "completely unhinged."
Now, half my friends think I’m hilarious and double down on the "Plushie King" nickname they’ve given me, but the other half (including my girlfriend) think I’m being uptight and, quote, "treating plushies better than humans."
I honestly don’t think I did anything wrong. If you walk into a museum, you don’t touch the art, right? Same principle.
AITA?
- @John Price