Morally, I do not want to be spiteful to people. All bets are off when it comes to him.
I've been feeling fine after screaming about it with my friends and their family earlier. But I will go full blown verbal e-assault him if I ever hear from him again, because he does have a number that I don't know of to preemptively block it. He's blocked on the line I know of. Unfortunately, we know there are ways to circumvent the block, which he's not tried to do at all.
Maybe if he croaks I'll get a little money. I'll take it, but I won't be upset if I don't get it. However, if he dies with nothing, potter's field he goes. I won't put in a penny for any of that. Mr. Blue Collar Working Man should have had enough money to do away with his remains. If he didn't work hard enough to have any money to honorably do away with himself after he was gone then that's his problem. Now of course those aren't my thoughts on that. I have sympathy for those who die without money to pay for themselves to be buried/cremated, but he doesn't and that's exactly what he'd say to me if I died without a penny and he had to pay for me to be cremated. I've already made sure he has no access to anything I leave behind. I can imagine him outliving me and inheriting my half a million dollar home or the rights to it if he's somehow ''Next of kin''.
Sorry you also have a similar relationship or should I say no relationship with your dad as I do with mine. I don't long for a good relationship with him at all. I just wish I wasn't made to feel like nothing by him. And by nothing I don't mean like I don't matter to him as a son, but nothing as in I can't even say I look good.