You're completely re-framing my position and absolutely doing your best to muddy the waters here but let's use your same logic from Wilson's shoes: if you think it's reasonable to jam at the goalie in a 5-1 game and keep going until the whistle without someone sending you flying, I don't know what to tell you.
I don't care about "escalated physicality", nobody is talking about that but you and like two other people acting like the issue is that hockey players were fighting. Crease clearing and regular hockey business isn't in the same ballpark as hip tossing a guy and very nearly thunking his unprotected head off the ice. The obvious issue here is the difference between things we see frequently in the sport and things you hope to avoid seeing precisely because they're more dangerous than usual, which is exactly what the throw was.
Your inability to just say "Chatfield shouldn't do that again" without "adding context" suggests your entire reason for being here is to deflect. Just say it once for posterity without adding anything extra, that shouldn't be difficult if you don't condone it right?