Also, sorry to spam the thread, but something interesting I found out from some women at work. Apparently, there's a FB page dedicated for women to seek out whether a man they're dating is dating other women. A young, gen z nurse showed me the page, and then scrolled through hundreds of pictures of men with anonymous comments below saying whether or not they're dating other women or cheating on their partner.
Of course, she then showed me a couple of pictures of two guys that work on our unit. The information I found out about them was...not great. One new, attractive nurse on our unit allegedly cheated on his wife and his current GF with a bunch of nurses. Another female nurse chimed in later and told me it's pretty much common knowledge on the unit he sleeps around and was a reason he left his old unit.
The other male nurse is playing a female nurse on our unit. People have known for a while. He'll take her out on dates, and lead her on, but then, a nurse knew someone who lived in his apt complex who saw him bringing other girls home.
The crazy thing about all of this- 45k women have joined the FB page that is dedicated solely to men in Rochester. Asking around the unit, and pretty much every woman I've asked has said they either heard of it or have joined it.
Women are sneaky, man. They're crazy with their investigating skills. I told them the page seems like an invasion of privacy and it's impossible to separate rumor from fact, but they're hell-a-bent on catching cheaters, and tbf- the evidence is pretty substantial that the two guys on our unit are doing dirt on the low. Nurses seem to have connections everywhere, so if you're a man on our unit doing dirt- they WILL find out.