NeelyDan's Friday Five:
1. What's your "neighbour style"? That is, are you a take time to chat upon returning home and finding a neighbour out front? Are you a wave and nod type? Are you a completely ignore? Do you strive for solitude to avoid the neighbour issue altogether?
“Neighbor issue?”
Thankfully, Mrs. 103 and I have tremendous neighbors. We have become very close with the families that live next door to us and across the street.
Especially the family across the street… We dogsit for each other. Go to each other’s houses for dinners, cookouts and parties. And they let us stay at their lake house in NH whenever we like as long as no one else asked to have it first. The husband is a contractor and has done several (smallish) jobs at my house and never took a dime from us. I’ve done electrical work for them and wouldn’t even let them pay for the materials. One can never have enough friends, and honestly, I think isolation from each other is one of the many social ills that plague our faltering little republic.
2. In your opinion, are Internet forums like these a good place to meet a potential partner? Why or why not?
As with anything, it would depend on the people involved. If two people genuinely share a common interest, that could serve as a starting point or ice breaker. If two people want to get to know each other - great. As with any kind of relationship or friendship, the best ones are built brick by brick over time, whether online or off.
3. Do you post regularly anywhere else aside from our little family here?
I used to. Politics absolutely destroyed it and it was shut down because it became impossible to moderate. It was a great forum and did a lot of good for a lot of people. Thankfully, when I saw the writing on the wall, I made sure I got email addresses and friended my favorites on Facebook so we could stay in touch. I have fb, but I don’t consider it to be like this forum here or the one that was shut down.
4. Have you ever snuck into a really cool place? Tell us about it.
Kind of.
When I was 12 or 13, some neighborhood kids and myself saw a gentleman park his Ferrari Testarossa in a parking lot and enter a nearby building. We rushed over to look at it and saw that he had left it unlocked. A kid who was a little younger than I dared me to open the door and sit in the driver’s seat. Naturally, I did just that. I can’t remember if I closed the door or not, but I definitely put both hands on the wheel and my right foot on the accelerator. The other kids couldn’t believe I did that. I eventually got out and shut the door. A few minutes later, the man came back - and completely without provocation - the kid who dared me to sit in the Ferrari pointed at me and blurted out everything that I did.
The owner sternly reminded me that I shouldn’t be touching what doesn’t belong to me, and said he was going to forget the whole thing happened as long as I never touched the car again. Sounded like the best deal I was going to get, so I took it.
As for the little rodent who snitched on me, he immediately ran home as soon as he realized I wasn’t going to get in any real trouble and that the only adult in the area had driven off and left us kids alone. He was very wise to run. In fact, after that day he avoided me like the plague until I graduated from high school.
5. Have you ever been unfaithful to a partner? If you're comfortable, walk us through it a bit - the lead-up, or the justification you employed, or the fallout, or the changes you made as a result.
I’m a ‘one woman’ kinda man. Never a good justification.
6. Bonus picture question because we all need it - post a picture of something that, regardless of what is happening in the world, brings you back to a place of contentment and peace.
These are some pictures near the Great Meadow that straddles the East Lexington - Arlington line. Ever since I was old enough to bike there (later I drove), my friends and I would meet there to hang out and commiserate away from adult supervision. I took these pictures last November on a warm day like today.
For several reasons I won’t get into here, I’m no longer in touch with anyone I used to spend time with there, but I always loved the scenery as much as any of the “fun” I had there with my friends. Unfortunately, there isn’t really a place like that where I live now, but my mind wanders back to that place and those days probably more than it should.