Sasha vs Bayley in Brooklyn is definitely really high on my list and on top of being good has to be one of the most important matches in history for what it signified for women's wrestling in North America.
Been waiting to really gather some thoughts here on the women’s side, as this match was a big catalyst for me, the iron woman match soon after was just as good if not better, imo. The historic nature of that first Brooklyn show was a big thing too as that really set the stage for a lot of what we see now, all over the world.
Best women’s match I’ve seen live was Asuka vs. Ember Moon at NXT Takeover Brooklyn 3. I can’t believe this didn’t even go 15 minutes at the time. I think that’s the most into a match I’ve ever been live (I was on the floor). I don’t think that anyone who thought Asuka would win thought they would have her kick out of the Eclipse, but when she did the place went into a fever pitch. Asuka winning took me to a different place.
A match I think is forgotten is Becky vs. Charlotte at Evolution. It was not only amazing, but they made a Last Man Standing match great, which in Vince’s WWE was basically impossible. This was with the backdrop of the audience refusing to let Becky be the heel.
In AEW, I think the match with highest regard is Britt Baker vs. Thunder Rosa for the championship, unsanctioned match on St. Patrick’s Day Slam in 2021. Can’t think of any other women’s match there that’s had that kind of attention.
In Stardom, there’s matches I still haven’t seen that I will get to, but the best match, is generally seen as Utami Hayashishita vs. Syuri for the Red Belt at the 2021 Tokyo Dream Cinderella Special (which was really COVID-delayed Day 3). Dave went 5 1/2 stars, which is the highest he’s gone on any women’s match, ever. It’s every bit of that, but they also had the balls to go 43 minutes, which was really a 30-minute draw plus a 13+ minute restart. And I loathe restarts, but it was worth it on this one. It was particularly impressive because at that time, Utami as someone who was wooden and lacked charisma or compelling character (ironic given that behind the scenes she’s supposedly the opposite). This became a major show in Stardom’s lore as earlier in the night Oedo Tai beat Stars where Starlight Kid was forced to quit Stars and join Oedo Tai.
Syuri is second among women on profightdb.com’s weighted star ratings, so any of her biggest matches are at the top, especially in modern times. Syuri vs. Mayu Iwatani for the IWGP women’s belt on January 4’s Ittenydom Stardom Gate is one. It’s a lot of yelling though, but it’s also a lot of kicking of faces, too.
I’ve said before, Mayu is on a heater with this belt, and Sareee is also on a heater since she isn’t dressing up like a school girl and playing with jewelry anymore. Their match at All Star Grand Queendom on April 27, may actually be the best women’s match I’ve seen. And they left some things on the table for a rematch. Mayu’s selling and facial expressions are so far ahead of anybody else around.