For me, good music can be deep and meaningful, with well thought out lyrics, and incredibly rich music.
It can also be silly and fun.
EDIT: I guess I would classify Raven Black as Psychobilly, which I like. Other female-fronted psychobilly in my collection includes The Hellfreaks, The Bombpops, and Kitty In A Casket.
Hey if you like the music, then don't let me impact your fun. I just thought it was really corny considering the theme of the music video, how they're dressed, what happens in the music video, and the overall style of music. For me, I am starting to notice that I am liking a melodic sound more and more in the new bands I find. I do however, like to try new things and gave that band a chance even though I didn't hear any of the melodic sound. Perhaps I am too opinionated and forgive me for that.
Officially deleted my Tinder and all my other "dating apps."
I've been on 10-15 first dates over the past few months and matched/talked with countless girls. Nothing has stuck past a second date. I wish I knew what I was doing wrong. I always match with the girls I want and probably go out at least once with 60% of them. It always seems like the date goes really well and both of us are interested in going out again. There's always some back and forth planning another date and then a week later I either get ghosted or get the, "sorry, I'm seeing someone else now."
App based dating has literally never worked for me. Being in a small outdoorsy town where guys who ski/climb/hike/bike are a dime a dozen doesn't help. But, I figured that playing the odds game would work out eventually. I feel so jaded right now.
Deleting the apps at least forces me to focus on myself for a bit. Getting #vanlife figured out is going to take most of my time in the next couple months anyways. And I always seem to do better with women when I'm not "on the market."
I don't think all women and men choose to be like that, but on dating apps they tend to change their full psyche and go into stupid mode. What I mean by this is I always had high standards for chicks (and I hoped that they would have the same for me). So I sort of took that ideology and when I went on Tinder in the past it was hard to find girls. It was even harder to bare because I now know that I passed chicks who I would probably be perfectly happy with who shared all the same interests as me, but didn't quite have the looks. Not that they were ugly, but when you get into swiping dating sites, in the back of your mind you always think that the girl of your dreams is right around the corner.
I am not saying you turn into this type of person Smiley, but all these other chicks could be using the same type of mental processing. Where they like you, but they think their "dream" guy is on the next set of guys. I've come to the conclusion that dating sites bring about the most superficial needs for people even if they don't mean or not. It's under the psychological problem that there are too many choices and the average person gets overwhelmed, so instead of a girl liking you and having a fantastic time, she might try to squeeze to find a guy who could be 5% better in y, 8% better in x, and 2% better in z. Staying in a mountain town where you have a limited number of people does damper your chances though, I will admit that.
My GF noticed that I was always basically on one site when I used my computer, obviously this one, and asked what it was. Needless to say she doesn’t “get it”, but then again when people put it like that I don’t see why she would
Put it as an analogy of reality TV, they would totally get it then.
I tried to tell one of my friends one time that romance reality TV is just as nerdy as going to D&D tournament and she simply could not get it. She thinks nerds are the mathematician-Yu-Gi-Oh-players who talk about chess strategies and new discoveries in physics. Yeah, nah, the new nerdy means is that a person has an obsession over something either that be with card games, MTV's "Teenage Mom", or that stupid Grey's Anatomy show.
