Maybe it's just that some people believe in men playing hockey/sports, but don't believe in women playing. It just doesn't resonate with them or impress them. Sports makes them feel manly so why would women do it? Maybe those people could stay in men's hockey discussions. There are still a lot of people who feel that way, or there are at least a few who like to talk loudly, and a LOT, to make it seem like there are a lot of them. They couldn't handle being less valid or less heard.
Really, atrocious? That's helpful. Was it the falling, the missed passes, the weak shots? The lack of energy? How do we address this? Note: I don't think you need to address falling, because falling isn't really a negative outcome in my mind. If I'm a pro-level anything, it's faller.
So do you think women should bother, then? Do you think in order for it to be a valid sport, women have to be able to play against men competitively? Or do you think that with programs for young girls and a push towards a hockey career and serious performance, and addresses health and physical difference more women have, the next generation would be consistently great players?
Even if you personally don't enjoy watching women play against each other, and they never play against men, do you think they could ever be less atrocious?
Btw, comparing women to teenage boys or men is a dumb argument meant purely to insult and
everyone knows it. If you're over 16, think about what you're saying. If you're under 16, find new role models.
Leafs get beat down by everybody on a regular basis - atrocious! But we give them a chance. And our money. Well, I don't. It's painful to watch. Most of the boys teams in each league probably get regularly beat down by the best boys teams, but we don't refuse to acknowledge them as valid players. We accept that it's natural that they should play if they enjoy it and we cheer them on.
I have no problem with men and women playing against each other at a recreational level, I love playing against the boys, and my friends all play non-checking, so the incidental contact is fun. But it's silly to think it's only a valid sport if we men and women together competitively - unless it's like boxing where there are weight categories - but based on muscle mass! My recent 170-lb weigh-in had its but kicked by my friend's 135

I had more total muscle but too much fluff dragging me down, she was younger and more streamlined

Probably less lazy too.
TL DR - as for the question, yes, let's have women play next door and during the same weekend as men's big tournaments and games - good opportunity for everyone.