Personally, I think you and a lot of others, including Brian Boyle, have misunderstood what Zibanejad was saying. He wasn't asking for consultation on roster moves. He's saying they should be communicated to about situations that specifically are about them, individually, directly from Drury instead of finding out about it either the moment it happens or through the media. Something that apparently didn't happen with Goodrow, or Trouba. Kreider too, for that matter. He didn't explain himself well, but that's far more likely than anything about roster moves. I don't think he thinks it should be that way for every player, but for the guys who have earned it through long service and/or wearing a letter? That's different.
It's not about consultation on roster moves and checking in with guys during the season are not remotely the same thing as that. The De Haan interview there changes nothing about what the players griped about.
We will agree though that the players handled it all incredibly poorly.