Yeah, the difference being that Tampa actually gave McD the heads-up and he could somewhat pick his destination. Where as Drury didn't tell Goodrow anything, and instead knew that he would be picked up by a team which Goodrow specifically had on his NTC.
Why are we still going over the same damn thing here? There is a reason, Drury's methods sparked a reaction from the players not just within the Rangers, but around the league. Now, this doesn't excuse the players for their poor play. They need to get over it, period. But it has been gone over multiple times that what Drury did with Goodrow, and to an extent with Trouba but especially with Goodrow, was pretty unorthodox and definitely not something that has happened in a similar manner around the league, even with GMs that have been "ruthless" in improving their team.