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Hmmm. So it seems as if different sources are reporting different things. Well, if someone raped a woman, they should be dealt with accordingly. Regardless of who it is.
I think you're missing the point. The hypothetical situation being discussed is one in which both Patrick Kane and Jane Doe were drunk.
If being drunk means being unable to give consent, and PK and JD were both drunk, logically neither of them could give consent to sex.. This is not a hard concept.
You keep saying it applies to both sides, but are vilifying PK for not "stopping sex" when in this hypothetical situation, he was drunk and unable to make consent to any sex in the first place.
Ok, but being drunk shouldn't automatically mean you are unable to give consent. If that were the case, than Kane also didn't give consent, so logically he was raped as well.
Hmmm. So it seems as if different sources are reporting different things. Well, if someone raped a woman, they should be dealt with accordingly. Regardless of who it is.
I thought reports this morning stated that Kane (himself) is not being investigated for rape, but the rape in question took place in his home during a party? If that's the case, should Kane be blamed if two people at his party went into a room and the man ending up forcing himself on the woman?
Entirely untrue or please post a link because that wasn't even suggested in any of the reports that I have read nor was it mentioned in the presser.
Not sure what the particular law is where this happened, but I know many states have recently been enacting "yes means yes" laws...which are different from "no means no." Basically it means the accused rapist must PROVE that the woman said YES/consented, rather than the woman proving she said no...which is almost impossible to do without recordings (which could open up other legal issues if both parties aren't aware of this).
Sex party? Maybe Kane was a witness to a rape (accomplice?) Maybe one of his entourage raped someone and he is publically silent to protect him (doubtful, but if there is an accomplice claim, maybe?)
Who freaking knows anymore?
Just going to need to wait until the facts roll out.
If Kane initiated sex after willfully getting drunk he is responsible for those actions. You are not excused for the actions you initiate if you willfully intoxicate yourself. A drunk person cannot give informed consent. If he acted upon her while they were both intoxicated he is responsible for doing so, while if she was too intoxicated she would not be in a state to consent to the action he initiated upon her.
That is hypothetical, I'm not saying that's what happened exactly but I'm trying to explain this whole notion of "neither could consent". If the woman initiated sex with him, then he would be the one not in position to give consent to her actions, and in that case he would be the victim of rape. That is not what is being alleged in this case however. It's really not that big of a gray area but a lot of posters seem confused about this concept. I keep hearing "logically he was raped a well" despite the fact that people are relying on pretty simplistic, faulty logic.
Alright, in some states they word things differently. It does not mean that two completely separate actions deserve the same laebel (I know there's only 1 guy in the thread that thinks this so I am not attacking you.)
If Kane initiated sex after willfully getting drunk he is responsible for those actions. You are not excused for the actions you initiate if you willfully intoxicate yourself. A drunk person cannot give informed consent. If he acted upon her while they were both intoxicated he is responsible for doing so, while if she was too intoxicated she would not be in a state to consent to the action he initiated upon her.
That is hypothetical, I'm not saying that's what happened exactly but I'm trying to explain this whole notion of "neither could consent". If the woman initiated sex with him, then he would be the one not in position to give consent to her actions, and in that case he would be the victim of rape. That is not what is being alleged in this case however. It's really not that big of a gray area but a lot of posters seem confused about this concept. I keep hearing "logically he was raped a well" despite the fact that people are relying on pretty simplistic, faulty logic.
If Kane initiated sex after willfully getting drunk he is responsible for those actions. You are not excused for the actions you initiate if you willfully intoxicate yourself.
Those laws require colleges that receive state funds have affirmative consent (Yes means yes) policies on campus. They apply to student behavior and discipline. Accused rapists are not required to prove consent in criminal courts under these laws.
Wait.. Are you saying that if you have sex with a drunk person It's rape?
So many persons gets raped on a daily at parties then..
I wonder if the allegations here might affect EA's decision to feature Kane on the cover of NHL 16. There is still a month to go before the game is slated to be released. This might be a question more suitable for the EA Sports NHL section of this forum, but it relates to this topic as well.
I would say, unless Kane is unequivocally cleared of any wrongdoing almost immediately, they'll change it. EA would never live it down if they kept Kane on the cover and he was convicted of whatever charges may be laid against him.
Jonteeh;105895761[B said:]Wait.. Are you saying that if you have sex with a drunk person It's rape?[/B]
So many persons gets raped on a daily at parties then..
Yes actually. There is a point when they say a person is too drunk to give consent and at that point it's rape irregardless. It's a gray area though what qualifies as "too drunk"... passed out unconscious is obviously too drunk, but slurring your words? Legal limit? Tipsy? Stumbling? Not well defined. Ultimately the difficulty in most rape cases is that it's one person's word vs another's, either party can easily lie to make their case and short of obvious evidence (physical force, revordings, etc), it's very hard to prove one way or the other that way. That's part of the reason for the "no means no" vs "yes means yes" laws..."nmn" can lead to false negatives (rapists can get away with it bc lack of proof of rape), "ymy" to false positives (false accusation upheld bc lack of proof of consent). Neither is a good overall scenario, and there is so much grey area in both.Wait.. Are you saying that if you have sex with a drunk person It's rape?
So many persons gets raped on a daily at parties then..
If Kane initiated sex after willfully getting drunk he is responsible for those actions. You are not excused for the actions you initiate if you willfully intoxicate yourself. A drunk person cannot give informed consent. If he acted upon her while they were both intoxicated he is responsible for doing so, while if she was too intoxicated she would not be in a state to consent to the action he initiated upon her.
That is hypothetical, I'm not saying that's what happened exactly but I'm trying to explain this whole notion of "neither could consent". If the woman initiated sex with him, then he would be the one not in position to give consent to her actions, and in that case he would be the victim of rape. That is not what is being alleged in this case however. It's really not that big of a gray area but a lot of posters seem confused about this concept. I keep hearing "logically he was raped a well" despite the fact that people are relying on pretty simplistic, faulty logic.
People also need to understand. This girl is in a terrible situation already.
Her name is inevitably going to be leaked online.
If it comes out that she has been raped, once Kane was charged and sentenced sports fans are going to harass her and call her every name under the sun, tell her it was her fault and increase the guilt that she has to deal with. Maybe even will have have to move cities and probably live in fear and shame for a long time.
If it comes out that this is unfounded and can not be proved, she will actually have to face less PUBLIC consequences than this but will have to deal with the fact that justice has not been done and he is still out there so it will be worse for her as a human being with feelings.
And if it is fabricated then well it tells you more of the type of person who is not vulnerable and honestly should expect ridicule because it severely damages the claims of people who are actually raped.
So honestly, people need to realize there is a reason why so few rapes are reported to the police. It's because in our society victimizes the VICTIMS of rape and sexual assault.
Don't rape people, educate yourself on what you are doing before you do it. It ruins lives if you don't. And don't harass people even if you are annoyed.