More often than not "questionable" icings are often waived off in our league. It's an ongoing joke with our refs regarding a 3 icings max per period unwritten rule.
Also this past Wednesday night in our game, I got held late in the 3rd period as I took the puck into their zone along the left side and was cutting to my right, across the high slot. It was a blatant hold, I lost my momentum and the puck, and I could see a few guys on our bench with their arms in the air with a WTF was that?!? At the next whistle I politely asked the ref why a call wasn't made and his rationale was; well, its a 1-0 game (we were winning), it really didnt take you out of the play, and you didnt fall down, even though he held you, and due to the game circumstances I didnt want to put them down on a call that could have gone either way. So I next time I guess I'll have to make sure to fall when I get held. #shrug