It's not that dressing room is an entitled prick zone or that the guys would be full of themselves. A power disparity in a group is a natural outcome even if you would behave normally.
It requires EXCEPTIONAL leadership skills from many guys in a team to deviate from these natural disparities. You need to actively act in a manner that tries to flatten the hierarchy. So in this case I suspect that McDrai haven't done anything wrong per se. They just haven't been exceptional with their leadership.
I reckon a glimpse into Panther's group dynamics would be fitting here:
"It can't be overstated, the character and ... I don't know if it's the right word, but the grace of each guy. If you came into the meal room, you wouldn't ... know ... who's ... who," Zito said, pounding his hands on the table for emphasis. "You didn't know who scored the winning goal. You didn't know who didn't play. I think that, as much as anything, is a testament to those guys and their character."
"That room that we have is so welcoming. Your personality fits almost no matter what it is. The more unusual your personality, the more you're going to fit in our room," Maurice said. "As long as you do those four or five things you need to do, everybody gets to be themselves."
What makes that chemistry work?
"That's all Barkov, truly," Maurice said.
"[Barkov] is like a magnet. You just find yourself gravitating towards him," Schmidt said. "You see what Cap does and it just kind of trickles its way all the way through the lineup. There's just no other way to do it. It's not like he's not a vocally imposing person. It's just, you need to do it because it feels like you have to do it for him."
Zito likened Barkov to a planet with "all the energy that comes from him" as a leader.
"It starts with Sasha," the GM said. "Paul's talked about this. I've talked about it. The players have talked about it. The only person who doesn't [get] talked about it is Sasha. How caring he is as a human and as a teammate. He makes you want to be a better person. So then it's easy to have the positive aspects of your personality come through. It's like he pulls it out of you."
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Make it two titles in a row for Tkachuk, Barkov & Co., who are as gracious off the ice as they are mean on it.
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