Sorry, he is dead on. The "leadership" here on ice has been a problem for over a decade. Kopitar has no business wearing a C. He is a specialist, an abnormality of a highly skilled player who has chosen to cheat offense and leadership in favor of settling down into a status quo that cannot win. He has chosen to play a supporting style of game instead of leading from the front. The proof is in the stale-ass pudding we have had to choke down.
And yeah, you can't lead players of different generations, different ambitions and different skill sets than his by "example". Respect is passive - leadership is active. There has been absolutely nothing positive to point to in his tenure as captain. No team success, extremely limited over-achievement, no players exceeding or hell, even reaching their potential with him as an example. All Kopitar does is keep on keeping on with mediocre results at absolute best. Nothing ever coaleces into anything larger than the sum of its parts.
There is no legitimate argument to be made that points to his presence over the past decade being a good thing for this franchise. It's just a long, apparently never ending period of accepting mediocrity and shrugging your shoulders at the results. Guess what? He will get 65 points next year and nothing will change.