Yes, sir, I most definitely am !
Just as I commented, I am also reading your comment with great attention, and you are totally right. And yes some are beyond any good road to recovery, I fully understand this as well. However, there sure are many people around victims and/or perpetrators whom do not want to turn pages, are adding tremendous additional pressure, that is setting them back, matter of fact can lead them to suicidal thoughts. We need to be smart around them, keep our cool heads and control our emotion of angers, showing the way to a better future in life. Regrettably, a majority of individuals are unable to exercise their own control. Despite expressing affection towards others, these affections and attentions are often obscured by their anger.