Not necessarily. If the previous reports about him negotiating a contract with Tampa and wanting to burn a year off ELC are true, and Tampa unwilling to do that, there simply could be some resentment.
Not necessarily. If you believe what JBB relayed about their conversation, is that he at this moment *wants to be able to choose the team*. It doesn't follow that he has made the choice already.
Which of my scenarios you refer to? I am assuming the 1st one, where the team sends a 2nd + conditional 1st/2nd to Tampa. This is based on the premise that the new team gets Howard's comensation 2nd if he doesn't sign with them, so they are simply moving to the end of the 2nd round if they aren't successful in convincing Howard to sign with them. You think that's too much?