For some strange reason, I watched some widely acclaimed 90s romantic comedy, and I cannot shake how creepy they are nowadays.
Sleepless in Seattle made a killing at the box office, and it helped to establish Meg Ryan as one of America's Sweetheart, but has anyone actually thought about the plot? Ryan's character heard a lonely man's confession on a radio show, and she decided that he might be the one. Even though she has a fiancee, she still decides to fly to Seattle from the East Coast where she was based just to see what he looks like. In any era, that is stalker behaviour, and she would have gotten a restraining order against her. Seriously, how did this idea get greenlit? Is Hollywood so morally bankrupt, that they consider this to be romantic?
Four Weddings and a Funeral is another example. Again, it got great box office, and it helped to establish Hugh Grant as a leading man, but he is essentially a creep. He had a one night stand at a wedding, and when he meets her again, she is engaged, but that does not stop him from sleeping with her again. She gets married, but at his own wedding, when he learns that she is single now, he leaves his future bride at the altar, and this cheating couple ends up together. Again, how is this romantic? He humiliates someone at her own wedding, and yet, he got a happy ending. It is not as bad as the previous example, where the action is likely criminal, but at the very least, it is morally bankrupt. There is also a homophobic element to the movie when the partner of a gay couple was referred to as a "friend" at the eulogy, even though everyone knew their sexual orientation, but it was different times, so I see it more as a time capsule of how 90s attitudes towards gay people are.
While these are the two most prominent examples, I remember that My Best Friend's Wedding is borderline problematic, and while I have not seen Runaway Bride, the plot already sounds pretty bad, when Robert's character leave people at the altar multiple times. Frankly, the 90s is a weird times, and seems downright dangerous. Romance, according to the movies, often involves criminal to borderline criminal activities.