It's not about stopping Rempe from being physical, it is about sticking up for yourself. If it was just about Rempe, the only fight would have been MacD/Rempe. That was a team, against a rival, letting the other team know they aren't going to take it anymore. If Rempe, while still being physical, crosses the line again, the Devils next step might not be so gentlemanly as evening things up with a fight.
The Kings taking it to the Oilers instead of continually turning the other cheek would do wonders. It wouldn't stop a physical player from looking for hits but it would take the rest of the their team down a notch. Right now, the biggest puss on the Oilers knows he can be right in Talbot's grill and nothing will happen. Everyone on that team thinks they can go anywhere on the ice and do anything they want.
Someone on the ice last night should have taken an instigator in response to that cheap crosscheck on Arvidsson into the back of the net. Team is mostly hopeless anyways but they can pack it in if he is hurt again. Guy is writhing on the ice and, as always, we just get some guys skating over because they know they are supposed to do something but, unfortunately, 95% of this team doesn't want to be the guy to actually do something. I even think Englund was on the ice for it as well, which is disappointing: especially when icing seven defensemen.