Why wouldn’t this be his preferred destination? Is there a better team who has the cap space? If he wants to be the man, make more than he is worth then the Jets can’t compete with Vancouver or Chicago. If he wants to win, get paid a fair contract the Jets are probably the best spot. If he wants to be a rich loser on a team that feeds his ego the Jets have no chance.
The deadline is when the Jets make their first move to replace him. It’s not like they have one plan. If something happens there will be alternative plans. It’s not like if the Jets say the deadline is June 29 (for whatever weird reason) and on the 30th Ehlers wants to stay and he is the best option they will still sign him.
I'm stating my opinion on what I feel he's thinking. No different then anyone else. A couple of the plugged in media types also seem to think he's leaning that way.
There are other teams then us that can offer a fair contract and a chance to win like Carolina for instance. Although the Canes likely can also offer a top line wing slot as well.
The Islanders are another team that has a lot of quality down the middle and on defense but are missing an impact winger or two. He could get paid well there and be the missing piece to help unlock that offense playing top line minutes.
There will be plenty of different options and teams available to him.