Spoken like someone who never watched a lot of hockey through the DPE, and only read about it or casually followed their favorite team through it.
COME ON, the only people that say something like you did, is someone that's about 25 years old and thinks that since they were alive in the late 90's thinks they are somehow equipped to make a call like that.
The scoring is looking ever closer to what we seen from 97-04, it isn't the grabbing and interference that's causing the difference like it did in the DPE, but its still the lack of penalties being called.