Yeah I’m stoked. Weird time to bring a kid into the world, but at least she’s gonna have a good record collection, a few old guitars, and a collection of dumb vintage jerseys.
I mean there's never going to be a good time to bring a child into this world. The best we can do is support and make sure their moral compass doesn't get compromised by idiots and show them as much love and compassion as we can.
Mandarin is a fun language to learn. Dated a Chinese girl years before I met my wife, she taught me simple things like this is pretty, hello formal and informal, thanks, etc. Just to make sure I can at least not be odd around her parents lol. She was from Hong Kong and went to school in the UK, that's how we met, Mandarin to me was easier on the ear than Cantonese.
Vietnamese is just what the f***, I can barely pick up phrases and I'm ok enough to remember hello, happy new year, and move out of the way this is hot, lol. Its like speaking a language drunk, the sounds for words, hard C, D, the accents etc. I do hope my Mum teaches our kids Afrikaans and Dutch and Vietnamese from my inlaws. I used to know more Afrikaans and Dutch from my Mum when i was a lad but I am now one of those - replies in English wankers.
I envy your first being a girl. I told my wife I want our first to be a daughter. When is your due date, mate? What does your wife hope for with the Chinese horoscope? I know that was important for one of my mates (he was Taiwanese, his wife from Shanghai, learned a lot about that sort of thing). I can't remember but do the Chinese do the whole 100 day thing?