Last little bit about the non-stoppage...
Even with the puck behind the net, a wrap around is an immediate and impending scoring opportunity if Dallas has the puck and the net is open. Then a first pass is made, net is still open, there's an immediate and impending scoring chance. Finally, the puck is sent to the point and there is an immediate and impending scoring stance.
At no point during that sequence was there NOT an immediate and impending scoring chance occurring.
The rule itself sucks BUT had the shoe been on the other foot and the Stars goalie was down and out without a helmet amd we were down a goal i nthe last minute with an empty net, we'd have wanted the rule followed to the letter.
I ref a bit and get screamed at all the time by idiot coaches, players and parents that don't know or understand the rulebook. If a coach bitches about a call i made on their team and I have to talk to them, I often ask "if the other team had done that to your player, would you have been OK with me letting it go?". That often shuts them up on the spot.