McAvoy is married to Sullivan’s daughter, Kiley. The couple recently welcomed their first child.
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MONTREAL — Charlie McAvoy has taken some hits.
Oh, not the ones delivered by opponents in the heat of the battle on the ice, although he’s no stranger to those.
These fall into the category of friendly fire delivered in the friendly confines of the locker room.
File under: Chop busting 101.
It happens when your father-in-law is the coach.
McAvoy, the Bruins defenseman and alternate captain, is married to Mike Sullivan’s daughter, Kiley.
The couple recently welcomed their first child, a boy, Rhys Michael.
“A little bit. And it’s fun. Everybody gets it at this point in the hockey world,” said McAvoy before Team USA played its first game of the 4 Nations Face-Off, against Finland Thursday night at Bell Centre. “I know it’s kind of more broadcasted now and especially on display for this tournament, but my friends all know and everybody really knows. So, it’s certainly funnier now and easier for guys to make a couple jokes about it.”
American goalie Jake Oettinger has a good sense of humor, but he hasn’t dipped his toes into this particular arena.
“I haven’t, no. I don’t want Sully to overhear me and then get mad at me,” Oettinger said with a sly smile. “It’s pretty cool for them, though.”
Oettinger’s connection with McAvoy — and his wife — goes back to their college days when they played two seasons together at Boston University.
“I know Kiley as well, I went to BU with her, so just pretty cool to see from where they were to where they are now, and now obviously they have a newborn,” said Oettinger. “And to play for your father-in-law, I mean, I think about myself playing for my father-in-law, how cool that would be. So, it’s pretty cool.”
joking aside, McAvoy has enjoyed the buildup to this tournament and appreciates the uniqueness of his player-coach relationship. He has enjoyed seeing Sullivan from a new perspective.
“Seeing his coaching style, obviously professionally, he’s had incredible success,” said McAvoy. “And it’s the same for us being pros, we both made it to the top tier that we can for our country, and that in itself is such an accomplishment. And yeah, it’s definitely been unique getting to see his coaching style and it’s been great and certainly we’re going to be prepared for this tournament, and all the hard work [the staff has] done, and it’s been a great three days of practice so far.”
Sullivan paused for a bit when asked about the opportunity to coach McAvoy. “Well, I can’t tell you what it means to our family and myself to have the opportunity to participate in an event like this with Charlie,” said Sullivan, a Marshfield, Mass., native, who like his son-in-law played at BU and for the Bruins before coaching his hometown NHL team. “First and foremost, he means the world to us for obvious reasons, and he’s a terrific person and we’re thrilled that he’s part of our family. To have an opportunity to coach him, I’m not sure I ever envisioned that.”
Sullivan said pretournament chats with McAvoy have been minimal. The coach set the tone early.
“I said to him, ‘Listen, when we’re in the tournament here, it’s all business and we’re trying to win.’ He’s all business and I’m all business and we’re trying to win,” said Sullivan. “Someday, we’re going to look back on it. We’re going to smile and we’re going to appreciate this opportunity that we have. And to be able to share it with him is a thrill for me and my whole family.”
It’s a family that recently grew with the addition of Sullivan’s first grandson and second grandchild.
McAvoy has seen Sullivan’s interaction with his first grandchild — “he’s a great grandpa” — and he’s excited for him to meet Rhys next week when the 4 Nations shifts to Boston.
“Quite honestly, what it’s like when him and my daughter just had their first baby, and for my wife and I, it’s an incredible thrill,” said Sullivan. “It’s certainly a privilege to be a grandparent and we’re enjoying that process also. And it’s new. He’s only two weeks old, I believe. So, it’s exciting times for our family. This event just adds to the excitement. Certainly, from my standpoint, I can’t tell you what it means to me to have the opportunity to share in this event with them.”