she didn't give the ref the opportunity, the ref called a phantom on a normal hockey play. i wouldn't even call that a particularly good hockey play, it was clearly a less-than-hard attempt on the puck because of the ref's warning. This is like being warned not to snow shower a goalie, then going hard to the paint without throwing any snow, and getting called for snowing the goalie.
you HAVE to make that play or you're screwing up. that's just normal hockey that got called as a penalty because the ref wanted to change what was happening in the game.
that's garbage from the ref, 100%, no ifs, ands or buts.