It comes across more as “disappointed grandpa” than anger most of the time.
He is stunningly similar to my Dad.
It comes across more as “disappointed grandpa” than anger most of the time.
Amen! This should apply to everyone but alas, getting proper treatment for mental health when you're an average joe is practically impossible these days.From the beginning, they should've been tight and stuck to a simple story: "JT Miller is on leave of absence indefinitely for personal reasons." PERIOD.
Persistent questions?
What is the reason for Miller's departure? "It is a personal matter we are not at liberty to discuss."
When will he return? Will he return? Is he being traded? "JT is an integral part of the team and our long-term vision, and he will definitely return. We do not currently have a timeline."
Did the coach kick him off the team? Did he blow up on a teammate? "We will absolutely not entertain rumors or wild speculation."
NO MORE QUESTIONS
They've tripped up so much in their messaging that they've fueled speculation and rumors by not being tight, succinct and decisive about it.
Long-term solution league wide if this is mental health related:
if a player is presenting with mental health issues
(1) have him properly diagnosed by a psychiatrist
(2) put a treatment plan in place that the player is bound to follow
(3) allow teams to place players on injured reserve if they are properly diagnosed and following a treatment plan
This ensures that players are getting the help they need, and that teams are not abusing the IR.
The best way to normalize mental health issues in general is to recognize that they are medical conditions that can be as serious as any physical injury or illness.
He's going to turn heel by attacking Demko with a steel chair and then proceed to shake hands with Mark Messier at center ice in front of distraught fans.
Mmmm I think his comments are more for guys like Friedman and Servalli to get them to STFU. Fans are still going to speculate and that’s fine.Frankly there are still a lot of questions and Rutherford's "old man shaking fist at cloud" move is not going to make them go away.
And then my personal favorite, the hot heads who see his absence like a rorschach ink blot test to justify their own pigheaded opinions,
Is it your personal favorite because you're doing it, too?
Oohhh don't hurt 'em.Is it your personal favorite because you're doing it, too?
Frankly there are still a lot of questions and Rutherford's "old man shaking fist at cloud" move is not going to make them go away.
Burnout is understandable but some idea of what lead to that burnout would probably be helpful. Or not! Obviously Miller is entitled to his privacy but at the end of the day he is an entertainer in the public eye and you can't help people wondering if they're hiding something. Especially since they are behaving like they are hiding something.
Anyways, super odd situation, I can't think of another time a player has left a team for this length of time without at least SOME explanation given.
It's funny how different people handle the Miller thing.
I think the mature perspective is, 'wow being a human is complex, I hope he's okay as a person and because he plays for my team. Guess we'll find out when we find out'.
Then there are the incredibly credulous, 'the media (who are desperate for clicks) didn't immediately shoot down trade rumors, he must be about to be traded!'
And then my personal favorite, the hot heads who see his absence like a rorschach ink blot test to justify their own pigheaded opinions, "He's probably so angry at Petey (coincidentally, many of these folks have hundreds of vitriolic posts about him themselves) and got so angry that he can't tolerate being in the same dressing room as him'.
Holy shit.
He's not getting traded, he's going through something personal. We will know more if and when we are supposed to.
Otherwise, chill the f*** out.
Ever really dealt with depression/anxiety ? I doubt it. Just because you need to know right?
Pull your head out Erno
If it's depression / anxiety then no reason not to say that.
ahhhh but all speculation isn't created equal. some speculation is good and virtuous and other speculation is evil and sinful. If you're having trouble figuring out if your particular brand of speculation is the good or bad kind, worry not, some moral authority will simply tell you how it is.no kidding. everyone insisting this is just some kind of mental health break (and i'm not claiming or even insinuating it's not) are engaging in the exact amount of speculation those who insist miller is about to be traded. no one has authoritatively claimed anything publicly
I’ve been discriminated by psychiatrists before. Why would anyone expect mercy or understanding by a group as dumb, ignorant and malicious as Vancouver fans/media? People can feign understanding and then be shitty behind your back…still though, he should’ve told this f***ing fan base about his supposed mental illness! I told a longtime friend of 20 years about my shit and then he was no longer my friend. People are so ignorant about this shit that there’s a reason I talk to one other person about it.As a person who has dealt with it for 8 years, it took me 6 years to open up about it. It's pretty multi layered and I won't ever comment on anyone else's situation. Mental Health is a real thing. I'm just saying I have some pretty horrific panic attacks that I wouldn't wish on my worst enemy. Its gnarly.
Again... we don't know what he's going through. I hope the best for him as a human.
If it's depression / anxiety then no reason not to say that.
Rick says Miller has been skating on his own with Jason Krog, and "we will see" if he practices today at 11:30. He says he won't return until he's practicing with the team. But says he's been skating and working out this week which is a good sign.