When the Jets played at Shea I always felt awful for fans that were both Mets and Jets fans. Typically they were Islanders fans as well which depending upon the era might have been great or awful as well.You could always become a Mets fan..........?
I get the sense here on this NJD board, that is Mets fans are a bit outnumbered which basically makes sense overall, but.....there are a few of us here that seem to resonate with pain well.
When we visited NY for a family event in 2019 I recall driving past Citifield with our youngest and telling him to check out the stadium and that NYC had plans to someday put an MLB team in there. I know, cheap shot. I've done the same for MetLife though and I'm a Giants fan.