Just a warning: Lucic conversation can NOT go off the rails. I know it's going to be debated and there is a big emotional attachment here.
Just please be careful. Thanks all.
While I know there will be differing opinions on this, all I can say is this.
I see the consequences of DV every day and it can be horrific.
I also see the positive results of people and families that were once severely flawed or broken healing and coming back together.
If this and the previous one were incidents that were the result of his struggle with alcohol and there hasn’t been a prolonged, pervasive history of abuse, and he gets help and his wife is willing to give him another chance, then who am I to judge?
Again, it‘s not okay….but neither is driving while intoxicated, using drugs, cheating on your taxes and a litany of other transgressions, that I’m sure nobody here has ever done.
As I said, if it turns out that he has been a serial abuser, that would change things,.
But, if his family is sincerely willing, hoping and trying to put their lives back together, and if him continuing to play hockey provides some of the ”normalcy” needed to achieve that goal, then we should step aside and let them be.