I thought Reimer’s respectful statement when he declined to wear a pride jersey was pretty clear. That incident didn’t inspire a thread in the main bird that I saw (or maybe it was squelched.) Maybe someone can pull the quote, which I can’t manage at the moment on my phone.
To me it was a clear message of accepting the individual and agreeing hockey should be open to anyone. (I’d insert - unless you remorselessly bullied a special needs child or participated in a gang rape, tbd). But whether the majority like it or not, we live in a country where many people are tolerant of others’ freedom to make choices that they believe are counter to a morality instructed by God. Compelling speech (through wearing a pride jersey) can be seen as celebrating something that violates those views. But I don’t see any of the players involved in that doing anything to make a hostile lockerrrom or trying to exclude any individual.
If a Moslem player were being compelled to do it and objected on religious grounds, I expect the public reaction would be more understanding . Is it not OK to be a practicing Moslem and be welcome in the NHL? Of course it’s OK. It’s also OK to be a practicing Christian or whatever religious descriptor someone chooses to describe a sincerely held belief.
If the NHL is going for inclusiveness, it needs to go both directions. (Hey, Christians have been mass executed historically at times too.)There is a distinction between choosing not to celebrate something and showing actual hostility. Let players show their welcome in a way that doesn’t create moral dissonance for them individually. But trying to enforce a homogenous viewpoint on a diverse population with differing backgrounds and beliefs is a fools errand, and ends up detracting from the purpose of the events in question.
To me it was a clear message of accepting the individual and agreeing hockey should be open to anyone. (I’d insert - unless you remorselessly bullied a special needs child or participated in a gang rape, tbd). But whether the majority like it or not, we live in a country where many people are tolerant of others’ freedom to make choices that they believe are counter to a morality instructed by God. Compelling speech (through wearing a pride jersey) can be seen as celebrating something that violates those views. But I don’t see any of the players involved in that doing anything to make a hostile lockerrrom or trying to exclude any individual.
If a Moslem player were being compelled to do it and objected on religious grounds, I expect the public reaction would be more understanding . Is it not OK to be a practicing Moslem and be welcome in the NHL? Of course it’s OK. It’s also OK to be a practicing Christian or whatever religious descriptor someone chooses to describe a sincerely held belief.
If the NHL is going for inclusiveness, it needs to go both directions. (Hey, Christians have been mass executed historically at times too.)There is a distinction between choosing not to celebrate something and showing actual hostility. Let players show their welcome in a way that doesn’t create moral dissonance for them individually. But trying to enforce a homogenous viewpoint on a diverse population with differing backgrounds and beliefs is a fools errand, and ends up detracting from the purpose of the events in question.