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I get it and agree, just pointing out the hypocrisyTwo reasons: Entitlement and late stage Capitalism.
I get it and agree, just pointing out the hypocrisyTwo reasons: Entitlement and late stage Capitalism.
big I would suggest that those parents probably push to get thier kids jobs and call in favours to get better opportunities for their kids in the business world. why are they onto do that there, but feel that 15/20 parents doing the same thing here are offside?
You are missing the point. I am saying a lot seems to be directed at this parent for raising an issue that is a reasonable issue, warranted or not. Grouping this particular parent in with some that are oblivious to the situation isn’t fair. This particular parent was respectful and thankful that this thread/forum was here to help fill in some of the gaps in the process that were previously misunderstood. Although no one was overly disrespectful to this particular parent, there seemed to be some eye rolling type of language directed that way. I don’t think it is fair in this situation.
I understand you and some others that are a lot more close to these types of situations go through this all the time but this is likely the first time for this parent so it is all new to them. An eye opener for sure. I can at least say this particular parent came across as disappointed in the results but was respectful and thankful to get some additional insight. I think we should embrace the tact with which this particular parent approached the situation and use this as a positive way to go about it.
Affording additional recommendations for how the players and parents should proceed going forward would probably be appreciated. I know you already did that, but just saying it more so to the group.
I don’t disagree, I’m simply pointing out there’s a level of hypocrisy here. most business professionals do the same thing for their kids without batting an eye. why is it ok when it suits them but not when it doesn’t?You are missing the point. I am saying a lot seems to be directed at this parent for raising an issue that is a reasonable issue, warranted or not. Grouping this particular parent in with some that are oblivious to the situation isn’t fair. This particular parent was respectful and thankful that this thread/forum was here to help fill in some of the gaps in the process that were previously misunderstood. Although no one was overly disrespectful to this particular parent, there seemed to be some eye rolling type of language directed that way. I don’t think it is fair in this situation.
I understand you and some others that are a lot more close to these types of situations go through this all the time but this is likely the first time for this parent so it is all new to them. An eye opener for sure. I can at least say this particular parent came across as disappointed in the results but was respectful and thankful to get some additional insight. I think we should embrace the tact with which this particular parent approached the situation and use this as a positive way to go about it.
Affording additional recommendations for how the players and parents should proceed going forward would probably be appreciated. I know you already did that, but just saying it more so to the group.
I appreciate your understanding and advocacy. I truly am learning and in no way delusional to my players abilities. This was a very eye opening experience and very far from the the picture portrayed leading up to this point. I can only assume those closely involved become detached from the fact these are human beings and not just a business transaction. I suppose I was hoping this experience was different from the group who calls in the favour's at work because that obviously isn't us or our player would be drafted.
I don’t disagree, I’m simply pointing out there’s a level of hypocrisy here. most business professionals do the same thing for their kids without batting an eye. why is it ok when it suits them but not when it doesn’t?
Berzkalns, Morozov, Klepov are Import draft eligible, Bumgarner is WHL propertyDoes anyone have a complete list of players who had a commitment, and which team ended up drafting them? Here is an incomplete(?) list
Rudolfs Berzkalns - BK Selects - Muskegon - undrafted to the OHL
Tynan Lawrence - Shattuck - Muskegon - undrafted to the OHL
Beckham Edwards - Little Caesars - Youngstown - drafted by Sarnia, 46th overall
Jack Hextall - Chicago Mission - Youngstown - drafted by Kitchener, 257th overall
Nikita Klepov - WB/Scranton Knights - Sioux City - undrafted to the OHL
Cole Bumgarner - Minnesota Lakers - Fargo - undrafted to the OHL
Jet Kwajah - Toronto Jr. Canadiens - Madison - drafted by Owen Sound, 104th overall
Callum Croskery - Oakville Rangers - Chicago - drafted by the Soo, 40th overall
Thomas Vandenberg - Ottawa Myers - Cedar Rapids - drafted by Ottawa, 93rd overall
Ilya Morozov - Windy City Storm - Tri-City - undrafted to the OHL
Colin Fitzgerald - Peterborough Petes - Green Bay - drafted by Peterborough, 3rd overall
The point seems to be purposely missed to confirm certain posters bias which is that no unworthy kids are missed. Which is clearly non factual. Nothing from this parent's posts indicate they had unrealistic expectations towards their kid and if one believes this is an example of a toxic parent then you haven't been around minor hockey much.You are missing the point. I am saying a lot seems to be directed at this parent for raising an issue that is a reasonable issue, warranted or not. Grouping this particular parent in with some that are oblivious to the situation isn’t fair. This particular parent was respectful and thankful that this thread/forum was here to help fill in some of the gaps in the process that were previously misunderstood. Although no one was overly disrespectful to this particular parent, there seemed to be some eye rolling type of language directed that way. I don’t think it is fair in this situation.
What gives you the impression it's ok in the non hockey world? Have you missed the movement to create more opportunities in the academic or business world?I don’t disagree, I’m simply pointing out there’s a level of hypocrisy here. most business professionals do the same thing for their kids without batting an eye. why is it ok when it suits them but not when it doesn’t?
there were rumours that the jr b loop in ontario was either joining the bchl or going on their own, but i think thats been avoided for the time being.Didn't really want to start a new thread. Some interesting changes in the wind out west.
BCHL And BC Hockey Tier II Updates And Expansion
Western Canada has been the epicenter for turmoil in Tier II or Junior A hockey for the last two years. From departing Hockey Canada, to AJHL teams defecting.thejuniorhockeynews.com
In your opinion, how much trouble is Hockey Canada in? With a lot of the scandals surrounding HC as well as a handful of the leagues for the older players seemingly wanting to operate with less restrictions, how will HC need to make changes to reinvent itself in light of all the hits it seems to be taking now?there were rumours that the jr b loop in ontario was either joining the bchl or going on their own, but i think thats been avoided for the time being.
its all about money, the public makes noise about this and that, but everywhere its about self interest and making more money. i think the local jr b look negotiated better fees and more 16 year old cards to stay.In your opinion, how much trouble is Hockey Canada in? With a lot of the scandals surrounding HC as well as a handful of the leagues for the older players seemingly wanting to operate with less restrictions, how will HC need to make changes to reinvent itself in light of all the hits it seems to be taking now?
Ah, so likely using the BCHL as leverage for a better deal.its all about money, the public makes noise about this and that, but everywhere its about self interest and making more money. i think the local jr b look negotiated better fees and more 16 year old cards to stay.
im not sure with them, i think they make way more money now and have more freedom to poach better players. they would come back if they could keep doing that. they were not allowed to sign 16 year olds from ontario while a part of hockey canada, so its to their benefit.Ah, so likely using the BCHL as leverage for a better deal.
When you say fees, do you mean player development fees? Or otherwise?i think the local jr b look negotiated better fees and more 16 year old cards to stay.
problem is the goj never really gets d1 commits. oj doesn't really ether but they get way more then the jr b loop does.When you say fees, do you mean player development fees? Or otherwise?
Right now it's a sham how the OJ can poach players year after year from the GOJ for a paltry $1000 development fee.
The quality of hockey in the GOJ is very comparable to the OJ and better than other Jr A leagues in Ontario (NOJHL, SIJHL etc.) Leamington proved as much this year as a rookie entry into the league.
Yes, therein lies the problem.problem is the goj never really gets d1 commits. oj doesn't really ether but they get way more then the jr b loop does.
the jr b loop is amazing for the ohl and vise versa, so going outlaw is not the best idea for them.
agree, the goj is perfect for what it is, im know part of their issue is that fee. they also want more 16 year olds, which i think will come.Yes, therein lies the problem.
The GOJHL has essentially turned into the OHLs development program. I'd say on average the GOJ must be a younger league than the OJ.
I don't know what they can do to change the problem, but something has to be done.
Ideally you make a "super" league by combining the top tier OJ franchises with the best GOJ franchises.% and trim the fat. Too many duds in either league to truly be the "league of choice". Unfortunately, I don't see it ever happening.
So many well supported, well run GOJ franchises. It's a shame.
Konnor Smith - 9th roundHounds have had a few in the last few years as well.
Allard - 7th. played for team canada
Clattenburg - 10th - will be a force the next year or two
Savard - 11th - had a good career.
it can be done.
theres an absolute ton of them, suggesting otherwise is sour grapesKonnor Smith - 9th round
Michael Simpson - 10th round
Jax Dubois - 14th round
Chase Lefebvre - 15th round
I don’t disagree, I’m simply pointing out there’s a level of hypocrisy here. most business professionals do the same thing for their kids without batting an eye. why is it ok when it suits them but not when it doesn’t?
All you really need to know regarding nepotism is the apple does not fall far from the tree. It’s pretty much law. There has been and always will be nepotism for good reason.Agree 100% that nepotism and the buddy system happens all the time in the business was world.
The difference is that it’s MUCH easier to hide an incompetent hack who’s clearly out of their depth when it’s a 1,000 person company compared to an 18 man team.
If you think nepotism and favouritism are bad at this level, I can tell you that it’s even WORSE at the professional level. And not just in hockey - - it’s like that across all sports.
its a 15 person draft, those favours and neoptisim are hidden, they are the 15th person drafted. they do not make the team.Agree 100% that nepotism and the buddy system happens all the time in the business was world.
The difference is that it’s MUCH easier to hide an incompetent hack who’s clearly out of their depth when it’s a 1,000 person company compared to an 18 man team.
If you think nepotism and favouritism are bad at this level, I can tell you that it’s even WORSE at the professional level. And not just in hockey - - it’s like that across all sports.