Well, OP, it sounds like a few different problems wrapped up in one:
1. Will you ever be excited about winning in the same way again? I'm sure you'd be stoked if we won a SCF--and it may be easy to say this from a distance but I doubt I get as excited about a, say, 2025 stanley cup in the same way i did 2012. It's just different. We're a little desensitized in a good way after being a doormat for 40 years. Not sure that's something that can ever be replaced, especially together.
2. Are you a fan of the game, or a fan of the team? I think that affects things greatly. I loved this year's playoffs. Great pace, good balance of scoring, defense, checking. but of course, the Kings were far removed, and up until the end of the season, were nigh unwatchable most nights. I think the game itself is in a great state.
3. The team itself seems to be super up-tempo and is looking on paper to be one of the fastest in the league at the very least--that's obviously TBD a bit but we're watching a makeover from a 'competitive' but grindy Kings team that was descending to a more-poppy team that's slowly ascending.
4. You point out your personal situation as well. I know I'm no spring chicken anymore. I have a kid and a family of my own and I can't just waste a random Tuesday night glued to 6 hours of hockey including the Kings. YMMV, but I imagine a lot of us that have been here for years are also aging into having to be more deliberate with our interests.
God yeah, that was borderline old-Clippers-level managerial ineptitude. ZERO direction.