What would you consider the start?

[Stand Witness]

Question:

Just curious how long everyone would say my GF and I have been together, obviously going to ask her about it.

We started talking in October (we have literally talked everyday since the first day we talked), went on our first date in November and kinda did like a "ya we are definitely in a relationship" at the beginning of February.

So would you say we have been together for 8 months (October), 7 months (November) or 4 months (February)? The 4 months between talking and being 100% vs 3 months between first date and being 100% kinda makes me wonder what I would say if someone asked me right now how long I have been with my GF.

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[VoluntaryDom]

4 months I think

 

[sabresfan129103]

Did either of you see other people between November and February? If you did then I would say you've been together 4 months.

 

[Stand Witness]

Did either of you see other people between November and February? If you did then I would say you've been together 4 months.

I didn't but I never actually asked her if she did tbh. From what I know, no she did not. I know for sure in January that neither of us were talking to anyone besides each other because I asked her if we were only talking to each other at that point (I guess this is a more accurate time that we for sure were exclusive).

 

[Cory Trevor]

If you were younger than 20 then I'd say 4 months but we are all adults here, seven.

 

[tarheelhockey]

Universally correct answer -- go with whatever your girlfriend says.

 

[LarryFisherman]

This is weird.

 

[Kairi Zaide]

6.33 months

 

[John Price]

No lady advice threads

Lady advice discord

 

[Stand Witness]

Universally correct answer -- go with whatever your girlfriend says.

winner and what will ultimately end up happening

 

[MetalheadPenguinsFan]

Universally correct answer -- go with whatever your girlfriend says.

This.

 

[Leafsdude7]

Depends on what you mean by/are referring to with "start".

 

[Siamese Dream]

From when you made it Facebook official, of course

 

[John Price]

Girls are manipulative and evil from what I learned on discord

Stay away

 

[tony d]

November so Option 2.

 

[Bee Sheriff]

From when you made it Facebook official, of course

This

 

[Ceremony]

Be sure to tell us when you're going to be on Jeremy Kyle.

 

[Guerzy]

when did you kiss her

 

[kingsholygrail]

Not even a year? I don't even consider you two together.

 

[JS19]

If she's not already pregnant, you ain't start ****.

 

[Cory Trevor]

Universally correct answer -- go with whatever your girlfriend says.

Pretty much this but just make sure you are ready to call her out. She will test you, and when she does if the answers wrong, make sure you have a preloaded response to why you were thinking it was a different time and make damn sure its better than her reason. Remember details.

Then hold it over her head for as long as you are together.

 

[John Price]

Cindy, 30, went on a date with the man she met on online and had been expecting a fun summer fling.

 

[Guerzy]

 

[jw2]

Depends, how long has she been with the other dude?

 

[Leafsdude7]

Depends, how long has she been with the other dude?

Which one?