I grew up in the 80's and 90's in Winnipeg. Around 1994ish I recall some of the first spring and summer programs coming out (Manitoba Mustangs, Winnipeg Jr Jets and Manitoba Polar Ice), I was asked to play but my parents couldn't afford it at the time. Almost all the guys I knew who played ended up hating competitive hockey by the age of 16 and decided to go to highschool sports.
I played AAA, CHL and Junior A, no one until the age of about 15-16 really started doing anything after the hockey season was over until about that age. The first real hockey focused program was Focus Fitness.
Now I have a son who is trying out for AAA, he plays spring and also does workouts with a hockey trainer. But he does about half of what some of the "elite" kids in our AAA area are doing. It's wild to me to see 13 year olds playing hockey year round, going to skating coaches, strength coaches, shooting coaches and even having advisors at this young age. I know of two that are going to a hockey academy this winter who are 13-14 years old, they don't take a week off the sport of hockey, driving in to Winnipeg every weekend and going to Vegas, Minneapolis, Toronto, Florida, Europe and many many more places yearly.....talented and good players, I just hope burn out factor doesn't hit them as it will be devastating to parents that spend that amount of money on a sport.
I was the OP, I still stand by the fact that turning sports into business at the minor age levels has created an unrealistic environment for most players. The rich folks can keep up with eachother and have an advantage in hockey development, much like every other sport now a days. For me its sad to see, I grew up in a poor community and parents that scraped by to make it work, but was able to make it to a decent level. Now you will almost never see that happen....it's just such a low chance of doing it unless you are willing to throw money at development outside of minor hockey programs.