Found a video last night with Brian Cox. Something about the basic foundation of Black Holes has been troubling me since I read Hawking's A Brief History of Time.
Cox made the comment in this video last night that once you cross the event horizon, basically time and space swap rolls mathmatically speaking. So the idea of nothing being capable of escaping a black hole became much more easier for me to digest... because when you no longer think of a singularity as a place but rather a time (in this case a very specific point in time... the end of it all) it becomes easier to comphrehend. It's not that you can't run away from a place... what you can't run away from is the future.
The big question I'm still trying to understand is that if information, matter, energy what have you goes into a black hole and can not escape it, even at the end of time... this seems to violate my understanding of.... entropy? Seems like laws of conservation for energy, mass, and even potentially charge are being violated.